THINK before you speak

T- Is it True?

H- Is it Helpful?

I- Is it Inspiring?

N- Is it Necessary?

K- Is it Kind?

If neither one of these apply then don't say it.


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The Birds and the Shivering Monkeys


This is another interesting tale story from the collection of Hitopadesha Tales. Once upon a time, there was a huge tree on the banks of a river. The tree made a comfortable home for the family of birds who had built their nests on its branch. The birds were living there happily as the tree with its widespread branches sheltered them from scorching sun and heavy rains.

One day, when the sky was overcast with dark clouds, it rained very heavily. Some monkeys who were playing nearby the tree got drenched and ran for shelter under the tree. All of them were shivering with cold. When the birds saw the monkeys in the pitiable condition, one of the birds said,” O Monkeys, you would not have to shiver like this, if you had built a home like us. You would not have to suffer like this. If we can build our nest with small beaks, then why cant you. By God’s grace, you have two hands and two legs. Why don’t you make a nice shelter for yourselves?”

On hearing this, the monkeys got annoyed and swore to teach a lesson to the birds. They said to themselves, “These birds are not afraid of the rain or of cold wind. They are living comfortably that is why they are criticizing us like this. Let the rain stops, we’ll show them how to build home”. As soon as the rain stopped, the monkeys climbed up the tree and destroyed the nests of the birds. They also broke the birds’ eggs and threw the young ones down.

The poor birds flew here and there in misery. They were full of regret for their words and realized that they should not have given advice that was not asked. Advice should only be given to learned, wise and to those who ask for it.

Moral: Never give advice to fools.

Boy who cried wolf


There was once a young Shepherd Boy who tended his sheep at the foot of a mountain near a dark forest. It was rather lonely for him all day, so he thought upon a plan by which he could get a little company and some excitement. He rushed down towards the village calling out “Wolf, Wolf,” and the villagers came out to meet him, and some of them stopped with him for a considerable time. This pleased the boy so much that a few days afterwards he tried the same trick, and again the villagers came to his help. But shortly after this a Wolf actually did come out from the forest, and began to worry the sheep, and the boy of course cried out “Wolf, Wolf,” still louder than before. But this time the villagers, who had been fooled twice before, thought the boy was again deceiving them, and nobody stirred to come to his help. So the Wolf made a good meal off the boy’s flock, and when the boy complained, the wise man of the village said:

Moral: no one believes a liar even when he is telling the truth.

Boyhood to Manhood


  1. Girls/boys are students. Women/men are teachers
  2. Girls/boys are consumers. Women/men are producers.
  3. Girls/boys play with toys. Women/men work with tools.
  4. Girls/boys break things. Women/men make things.
  5. Girls/boys take things apart. Women/men put things together.
  6. Girls/boys ask questions . Women/men give answers.
  7. Girls/boys introduce chaos. Women/men bring order.
  8. Girls/boys run in gangs. Women/men organize in teams.
  9. Girls/boys play house. Women/men build homes.
  10. Girls/boys shake up. Women/men get married.
  11. Girls/boys make babies . Women/men raise children.
  12. Girls/boys won't raise their own children. Women/men will raise theirs and somebody else's.
  13. Girls/boys are self centered. Women/men are other-direted.
  14. Girls/boys look for somebody to take care of them . Women/men look for somebody to take care of.
  15. Girls/boys want popularity. Women/men command respect.
  16. Girls/boys are up on the latest. Women/men are down with the greatest.
  17. Girls/boys make mistake and give up. Women/men learn from their mistakes and strive.
  18. Girls/boys live for the moment . Women/men have knowledge of the past, understanding of the present, and a vision for the future.
  19. Girls/boys run away from problems. Women/men seek help find solution to a problem.